"You know what's awesome? Casual racism against Asians, and especially
Asian dudes. No one has a fucking problem talking about how every Asian
guy must have a tiny Asian penis. No one bats a fucking eye. It's a joke
that everyone believes. For all the non-Asian dudes out there, imagine
if, from the time you were born, you were in a society dominated by
people who assumed that you had a tiny penis and that much of your worth
as a man was determined by that. Now imagine growing up that way for
20+ years. Now imagine the fucking impact that has on your fucking
psyche. A real positive one, yeah. What are you supposed to do? Fight
them? Get pissed? Correct them? Whip it out? It's a no win scenario. You
either look like you're "overreacting" to a "joke" that everyone
fucking believes, or you are way too defensive, or overcompensating.
There's no fucking win. The greatest emasculation trick of 1 billion
people on Planet Earth, ever.
"Society has had it beaten into them that anti-semitism and
anti-black is just unacceptable. I've been called chink, charlie, blah
blah, on down the line in a supposedly liberal college town. I've never
heard anyone call someone else a nigger or a spic. It's totally
unacceptable to do that"
"I've been outright rejected multiple times because I am Asian. Girls
will just say "Sorry, I don't really like Asian men". I'm fine with that
but it happens quite a bit with Asian girls as well, but I'm pretty
chummy with most of them still, even if I have to fake it. I notice most
of my Asian friends, as in EVERYONE of them bar the rich kids and
extremely tall 6'5 Asian were FA. I'm not being racist but I just notice
this, at least I have people to talk to empathise with. The worst pain
happened when a girl rejected me then next week was in a relationship
with a white guy. I'm fine with interracial dating, no in fact I support
it but it makes me feel like I'm part of some unwanted group, that if I
wasn't incredibly special in some way such as being attractive, tall,
smart or rich then I'll never get a chance.
If this seems like a depressing Oppression Olympics post,
it's not supposed to be. I'm more concerned about the school system and
goverments than shallow dating based on height and race. I also realize there are women who don't mind short Asian men. My point is that society is far from equality.
To
end on a positive note, here's one quote every minority should live
by,
"Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you."
